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Sebastian ([personal profile] wildeabandon) wrote2015-05-30 03:15 am

Gender wossname

Whenever I google for "male femme" or "male femininity", what I get is resources for trans women, or if I dig a bit deeper in one direction, for male transvestites, or in the other direction for maab genderqueers.  And it's great that all those resources exist, but they're not for me.

And I think, can I really be the only person who is male-identifed, with no female or genderqueer side at all, but who has femme as an important part of his identity?  I mean, on some level, obviously not, because my nails and cocktails parties, which are about as femme as an event gets,  have been consistently more than 40% male and less than 40% female.  But life is complicated.  Waah

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